The Stares we Face: Part 2 - The Curiosity Gap


Imagine you’re at a playground. A child next to you is flapping their hands, making sounds, or refusing to play in the "expected" way. You want to understand—but you hesitate. Is it okay to ask? Will it offend the parent?

This is a moment many parents of neurotypical children experience. Curiosity is natural, but silence creates distance.

As a neurodiverse parent, I’d rather you ask than stare. I’d rather have a conversation than feel isolated in a shared space. A simple, respectful question like:

💬 “Is there a way my child can play with yours that would make them more comfortable?”
💬 “How can I teach my child to be a better friend?”

These are the moments that build understanding. These are the questions that turn curiosity into inclusion.

The next time you’re unsure whether to ask—take the step. Let’s replace quiet curiosity with open conversations.

Have you ever hesitated to ask a question about neurodiversity? What held you back? Let’s talk.

#WorldAutismAwarenessDay #CuriosityToInclusion #AskWithEmpathy #NeurodiversityAwareness

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